• Managing each day and week so that we are more productive and effective while a little less crazy and stressed is a great challenge for most of us. That challenge seems to be multiplied as the calendar pages turn in December. Maintaining balance between your well-being physically, intellectually, emotionally, financially, and spiritually seems almost impossible as we prepare and live through the Holiday Season and into the New Year. Therefore, I will offer you six articles with food for thought… one on each of the five areas and the last article will be on leveraging the New Year to max advantage.

    Physical Well-Being During the Holidays

     
    The Holiday Season offers a lethal combination of challenges to our commitment and desire to maintain our physical well-being. Too much and the wrong kind of food and drink combined with less exercise and more stress can take its toll on us. And part of the toll is that we have less energy and focus to deal with the challenges that are typically greater in the other areas of life at the same time. This can set up a deterioration in not just the physical area, but others as well which multiplies the set back to our overall well-being and effectiveness. Those costs can be huge. What are some tips to better manage these challenges?

    If there is benefit to maintaining balance by paying attention to health in the physical, emotional, intellectual, financial and spiritual areas over time, the techniques and strategies that work in normal times can work in more intense times if we intensify our determination to use them. However, the temptation is to respond to the unusual and hectic pace as the year-end approaches by letting the distractions push us into the reaction mode and lose grip of our days. When that happens, one of the first places we cut is our exercise program. Big mistake. Exercise and stretching are great stress reducers and help burn off extra calories that seem to also accompany the holidays. Exercise not only burns off calories during the time of activity, it also increases our metabolism so that we burn more fuel, like eggnog and iced cookies, at all hours.

    In the area of nutrition, it is much more effective to control the input than to try to offset excess with more output. It is part of the joy of the season to partake in some of the treats that accompany it, but the key is to plan and moderate. Eat a healthy snack before the party. Consider your mind set and mood before facing the buffet and decide in advance your limit, like only one plate, for instance. If you blow it, see that as an event which has ended, not a permanent change in lifestyle and personal values.
    Sleep is always important because it restores us in every way. But the quality and quantity of sleep can suffer around the holidays for all the reasons we understand. The benefits of planning our days ahead, in writing, so we identify all the activities we need to address and more efficiently combine trips are several and helping us maintain our confidence and avoid frantic/panic feelings is chief among them. Such feelings interfere with sleep. Bad sleep contributes to lack of confident feelings and panic. Don’t go there. Plan!

    Gift giving is a part of most holiday traditions. If you have not made your physical well-being a high enough priority, if you don’t like the way you look or the way you feel, a great gift to yourself, the ones you love and your own future is to make a small beginning to exercise regularly and pay better attention to your nutrition. Sometimes the best defense is a good offense. You might decide to get off tobacco, moderate other habits, stop risky behavior, and begin more healthy habits right here in the middle of the holiday madness. What better time?

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  • The world we live in brings us tons of information on many channels. There is little time to see the flow just on the few subjects of greatest interest to us, much less time to be discerning about the source and reliability of the views and claims. Yet we must try for we are information driven beings and there is great potential power in even a slightly changed paradigm.

    Life is full of choices good and bad. In fact, being human is about making choices continuously, moment by moment, hour by hour, day by day.

    EXAMPLE: Let’s say we decide we want and need to lose weight, but we love Krispy Kreme doughnuts. (If you have ever had one of these little fat balls hot, right off the belt, you better understand the addictive power of crack cocaine.) Even worse let’s say there is a Krispy Kreme shop on your main route of travel and you must pass it several times a day, each time feeling the tug to stop and have “just 3?, especially when the red HOT NOW light is illuminated in the front window. That light seems to be directly connected to your steering wheel. On some trips by the store when you are feeling strong and your belt is especially tight you can pass by , but too often you yield and steer right in. Then, some how you get exposed to the idea that you can make ONE DECISION versus MANY. This notion is new and is just information at this point, but you ponder the point and begin to see the value in deciding to completely stop eating donuts until you reach your desired weight. That’s one decision with benefits to you. You contemplate it over a bit of time and remember it, embracing the truth of the concept. The idea of implementing ONE DECISION and stopping the donut flow has become KNOWLEDGE (defined as truth remembered), but nothing good has happened yet because there has been no ACTION.

    WISDOM is a word with an action component. Our lives are made up of the actions we actually take…..not what we want, what we intend, what we ought to do and should do, not what we could have done……life is what we DO. So, we decide to really stop eating donuts for a time (one decision) and we then contemplate how to implement the concept. We look at the maps and figure out alternate routes to avoid going by the donut store all the time. Voila, beneficial action. WISDOM and benefit.

    This idea of the differences between information, knowledge and wisdom is helpful as we navigate the flow of information coming at us. What are the sources of valid information that we then want to retain and claim as true, and which begins to influence our actions for the better? The volume of information is a great benefit of our era if we approach it with this type of system.

    It is all about that little voice inside. Mastery of it is my goal…a work in process.

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